What arose from a general conversation of diverse experiences of introspecting why who did what and till what extent...there were interesting reactions which actually co realte to how we reassure ourselves and justify our actions to ourselves to make it all so cool and easy in the “sex”ual realm...no matter how hard we try to portray ourselves as the uber chic and broad minded thinking our minds are still ruled by the question on purity and pollution....the case of virginity??!!..
Is the degree of intimacy so strong a factor that makes sex so hush a thing and a kiss not so personal as the former...coz maybe it’s the closest you can get to person physically...funny enough when people are so comfortable to have oral sex with each other they often don’t have the traditional sex as a taboo and not to be done before marriage...why the guilt then which is stated as one doesn’t want to be unfaithful to whoever they settle for, you are obvioulsy not cheating or double dating someone....in all probabilities sex has the dramatic effect of fluctuating between spot light and lime light..the societal hype..all the credentials of being sacred and pure or simply an act of procreation and nothing to do with the art of love making...or the fact that you want it to be special, what guarantee that the person you are doing it with is the best for you cause obviously you are with a person when you think that a person is worth you and for obvious reasons it can change with time and circumstances...if deduced, it’s merely a process which starts with a kiss where you extensively and exclusively use your tongue and ends with sex where you use your respective reproductive equipment for pleasure and procreation...so if biologically speaking what’s the big deal...
It doesn’t boil down to random sleeping around and indulging in universal whoreness and going all the way with each and every person you date but merely not blowing sex out of proportion to which we superficially despise and secretly we all have been there and done that...let sex too have a breath of fresh air..i personally feel that sex stemming with all it’s passion and fire and love ultimately turns into a horny act and why wouldn’t it...that is one of it’s objectives and is a prime physiological need and that’s the way it’s satiated...and a kiss and a hug is yet more personal and tender and loving cause that’s where the turn on begins and doesn’t end...
(this all comparison arose from an incident i was told of where the guy felt guilty of having sex but not going all the way down to third base...who is thinking like a woman now??..heheheh...:)
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